Fundamentally, good parenting is common sense. Whenever you want your children to grow successfully, then sit and think of your past. What aspect of your life do you want to reflect in your children life as parent? Although, raising children is not an easy task as parents. In as much that you know that raising your children will give them a good structure in attitudes and personalities, and then it is advisable to do this good parenting with love. This will motivate your children the more to yield to the task.
For your good parenting to materialize in your children, the first thing you should do is to gradually make your children feel, think or behave in the exact way that you want. When you make your children feel, think or behave in such manner, stay away from any negativity and concentrate on positive things although, it is not an easy task. Do not insult your children so that you will not reduce their confidence. Try to set up and maintain a raising method that is positive because when parents’ reaction is negative to children, it will instill distrust and fear in the children’s mind.
Another method you can use in good parenting is your way of communication with your children. Be positive in your mode of speaking when talking to your children. For instance, when you are disturbed in your spirit, control yourself and do not let your problem affect your children because they are not the cause. Do not degrade your children but rather create a true affirmative communication and reveal your problem to your children. Let them know that they are not the cause and counsel them on the way to behave in this situation or period so that you will not beat them. When you do this, the children will not disturb you and you will have sufficient time to think and get the solution to your problem.
Let your children have enough time to know you better and give them grace to behave as member of the family.