Children are sweet and their sweet smile leads you to think of their innocence. They are truly the gift of god especially for parents and grand parents. The need is to preserve the gift of god carefully with love and peace. Children require special care and attention as they wish to feel secured by their parents. Children will feel lonely if there is no one to guide them. Moreover, if they experience violence in any form in the outside world or even at home, they would succumb to depression and phobias.
If you as a parent are violent in any way with your child whether verbal or physical, it is a high point that you must realize to curb these activities as they are a dangerous form of abuse. A parent must realize that their child is most sensitive to what their parents think, feel, say, do and believe about them. Children have high amounts of morale boosting expectations from their parents as they wish to be guided, mentored and motivated by their parents who they count as their own role models.
Children will experience violence at some point of time in their lives in any form and this possibility cannot be eradicated completely though certain traits can be developed in your child to help them deal with such situations. However, a parent must ingrain the “strength building” skills into their child as the child starts becoming an adult from a teenager. Whatever the case may be, you must become a support system for your child until he/she can become independent by themselves. Parenting your children with a promise that you would utilize “silence” as your tool to deal with your children and teach them lessons of life without the use of violent abuse. Parenting your children with a smile is the ultimate way to deal with your children. Be A Good Parent Today! Happy Parenting!