Good parenting is not easy to define when it comes to child rearing but instead it is good for parents to focus on the effectiveness of good parenting. Due to the racial differences and factors of social economics as you know that what is good for a family might be bad for another family.
Being a new mother, there is tendency for you to encounter problems. Most of the time good parenting books and magazines might not help even you might have forgotten the methods of tackling the issue as stated in the books. Moreso, what happens to you might be difficult from the one that has happened to another person as no two situations are the same. Mostly, discipline do bring about the largest problem among parents as some parents build up on attitude while some other parents admit it as effective parenting as it brings about physical violence.
Effective good parenting is known as a lifestyle which you have to monitor daily. It is said to be given people privilege to have their say and communication. This is not the same in every family. There are some families that are of single parents. All these good parenting books are mostly based on coupled and if you are not in this category, then it will not be easy to think on your effectiveness of good parenting style. But through information and guidance with a little step, it can be easily attained without any problem.
Spanking is another effective parenting. Let spanking be parenting option and not an order from legislator. Do not spank your children at home and let your children be flogged in school. There is a scripture in the Bible that says “spare the rod and spoil the child”. I will advise that people should study the behavioral systems used by the past generations and has been helpful to them such as two different views that has been recorded good for some time, then the racial factors and economic must be examined before taken a decision.
Also wherever you see parents that have little responsibility on work, then the cordial relationship between such parent and the child will not be firm. The child will develop more interest in the other parent with more income. This case needs to be rectified so that both parents will be highly effective in the child’s life. This usually happen with the fathers in the good parenting.