Parenting is a tough as well as responsible job. Our kids always need to be guided and encouraged. It’s not a one time job, rather it’s a process that needs to be perfected and improved upon. Providing the children the belief that parents are always there is very important in their development and growth. The feelings that go a long way in shaping up future of the children include, love, appreciation, respect and guidance etc. yes, respect seems slightly odd here but who does not want respect especially coming from parents. It can be a tremendous source of motivation for the child.
It is believed that a kid with strong bond with parents tend to do much better than their peers. Such string bond also leads to discussing important problems with the parents and that go a long way in determining mental and emotional status of the child. Going by the fast and hectic lifestyle parents live today, it becomes slightly difficult to devote the needed time to secure the bond with child. But this pace also indicates a far greater need of establishing the bond with the child. That way child will always be assured of having a strong back-up system.
As said earlier, establishing a firm bond with the child is kind of process. Parents can start with few basic steps like, appreciating each and every small thing about your kid. I am not asking you to pamper them or make a false appreciative comment but it should be genuine. It makes child feel special and brings him closer to you. They say, laughter is one of the best medicines. How true! Try laughing with your ward on every possible occasion. Never try to judge your child. Guiding them would be a much better option. Follow these basic steps and establish a better bond with your child.