Every parent is concerned about their dearest child and every parent looks after their child’s life very seriously. Thus, every parent keeps talking repeatedly to their child about their misbehavior and this annoys children repeatedly. Children are sensitive in every way. They take their parents repeated gestures as “unwanted” and as “bickering”. They dislike being told repeatedly by their parents to do things they would not like to. It irritates them to the extent that they stop talking to their parents for a while.
This further leads to a communication gap which creates further misunderstandings. It comes to a situation where disrespect grows for each other and there are frequent fights which are unproductive at both ends. This is a disastrous situation for a family. Thus, a parent is mainly responsible for keeping the family intact. So, a parent must take lead to reanalyze the situation and make changes to their own behavior or style of working.
Firstly, Keep cool and calm. Do not exaggerate the situation whatever the case maybe.
Secondly, it is a matter of conviction. What matters is you convince them about your thoughts rather than enforce your thoughts on your child.
Thirdly, clarify with your own self of what you want. You must have a clear idea of what you want.
Fourthly, Look for an appropriate time when you think your child will listen to you utmost and then approach them with a smile.
Fifth, discuss freely but do not browbeat, complain, criticize, condemn or analyze in front of them. It would irritate them a lot. Stick to the point and make them visualize what you mean to say.
Sixth, Speak the truth and say it genuinely. If you’re genuine in your thoughts, your child cannot evade listening to you et all.
Be A Good Parent Today! Happy Parenting!